-- We were born flexible and tender, but we bcome rigid and packed when we die. "Flexible/Tender" are the symbol of life; "Rigid/Packed" are the indication of Death. -- [Lao-Tzu: Tao-Te-Chin, Chapter 72, 500 BC]

Your husband's sexual dyfunction is a result of blood congestion in his perineum, genital, butt, groin and low abdomen areas. Since he spends a lot of time behind the wheel everyday, the sitting position blocks the blood and bio-electricity (we call it "Chi") flows into his sex organs, and makes his sex organs go to sleep all day long. Do you remember how your hands or legs became numb last time? If you interrupt the blood/Chi flow into your legs or hands for certain period of time, the correponding body part will become numb. The same principle applies to your husband's sex organs. His muscles in these areas become too packed, like a hard soil to prevent water seepage. Sorry, I use soil engineering mechanics to explain the situation of his genital muscles to you.

Only Vacuum-cupping massage (don't use the penile enlargment device!) on his low back, butt, low abdomen, grion and perineum areas can re-activate his blood and Chi flows in his genital area. This is like a farmer to unpack the soil around a plant before watering it. I mean his muscles around the penis must be unpacked, so that his sex organs can get enough nutrients, oxygen and bio-electricity. It requires 3 - 5 treatments to remove blood congestion in the deeper layers of the muscles. Once the muscles are unpacked, his sexual function will be restored in about 3-7 days. After the vacuum-cupping-massage treatment, his low abdomen and genital areas require pressure massage everyday to prevent blood staggation there again.

Pressure Massage should be extended to his legs to disclose certain tender and painful spots which are the acupuncture points. Applying pressure to these spots will cause unusal pain, and these spots become very tender. The pain of these spots indicates the Chi flow down to the legs has been interrupted here. Massaging these spots will help restore his sexual potential. I used Vacuum-cupping Massage to solve my problem and restore my sexual power in 1993. Middle-aged men need a tune-up for their sex engines! A brief description of Vacuum-cupping Massage is given in

http://www.linplaza.com/love/massage.htm