by Newman K. Lin, Ph.D., PE(click here about the author)
Case Study - Frequent sex causing pain in the vagina openning! Slow him down - Unedited and Name withdrawn; Free Advice from Dr. Lin.
Reader's E-mail:
> Problems: > Dr. Lin > I really need your help. every time i am in bed with my girlfriend, and > we are about to have sex - my penis goes soft. i will have an erection > for a long time beforehand, but RIGHT at that exact moment it goes soft. > sometimes even when she just starts to give me oral sex. i don't > understand what the problem is. i don't think that it is nervousness. i > think that i probably start thinking about it too much and then > contracting the wrong muscles or something. i thought it also might be > becasue i masturbate too much. i usually masterbate 1 every two days - > is that toom much. do you have any advice for me. I would REALLY > appreciate it. thnak you so much,
Dr. Lin's Answers:
I have the following questions for you to answer:
1. How old are you?
2. Are you on drug/medication, or a heavy drinker or smoker?
3. Do you have morning erection?
4. Are you overweight?
5. How often have you had sex?
Your problem is associated with weak Liver and Kidney Chi. The underactive Liver function drives the adrenal glands (associated with the production of Kidney Chi) to produce more female hormone than testoterone. Drug, alcohol and medication can "poison" the liver, de-activate the DHEA production from the adrenal glands and create this problem for you. Anyway, you have the impotency symptom.
Let you answer the above questions before I propose solutions for you.
Dr. Lin,
Here are the responses to your questions :
1) I am 21
2) I am taking acne medication and skin allergy medication
I've never smoked and i rarely drink (once every few weeks)
3) I have morning erection once in a while but not everyday
4) I am underweight - 5'8" tall 130 lbs
5) With a previous girlfriend we had sex about once or twice a week for
about six months or so, but it's been almost a year - as long as you
don't consider masturbation.
I have no problem obtaining an erection when i am with my girlfriend, i
can usually sustain it for quite a long time during foreplay too, but
right at the moment of penetration, sometimes a little before, i go limp.
thank you very much for any advice that you will be able to give me.
i sincerely appreciate it.
Thank you,
Your medication takes tolls. I know Benadryl will create the similar problem for me.
I propose the following steps to test your system:
1. If possible, stop medication for one month and evauluate yourself.
2. Shorten your foreplay.
3. Massage your groin and low abdomen area twice a day.
Medication poisons your liver and deactivates your liver functioning. This forces your adrenal glands to produce more female hormone than it is supposed to be. If you stop medication for one month, the liver functioning may return to normal if damage is not done to the liver yet.
The permanent solution is to get rid of medication and to restore your immune system and sexual strength. It requires massaging certain accupunture points and searching for certain outaged spots along the accupuncture networks. If you press these spots, you will feel unusual pain and they become very tender when you run them for several time. Let me make several accupunture network maps for you to follow. I will e-mail to you this weekend.
Thank you for your advice - i do have a concern left yet though.
I had this problem 4 years ago before i was on any medication, and then
about 2 years ago, with a different girlfriend, we got the problem to go
away after a few weeks. that's why i originally was thinking it was some
kind of nervousness or something. as far as emailing me a map of pressure
points, i'm not sure i will be able to receive it becasue i am on the PINE
email system which is really tricky with attached files.
if there are any other causes which you can think of that might
also cause my problem, please let me know.
thank you very much.
Ok, The other way to re-nourish your Live and Kidney Chi (bio-energy) is
the herbal supplement products. Try Futurebiotics' "Male Power." This
product contains Deer Anlter and Animal Glandular Extracts, that can
directly boot your Live and Kidney Channels. You will feel the power of
this products in 3-4 days. I hope this helps.
Where can i get these herbal supplements?
Thanks.
Check your local healthy foods stores!
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This article has been provided by Wave Mechanics Division of Applied Science & Engineering
Research, Inc. 12/20/1997
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