Reader 4/8/1998>
When I masturbate I tend to get excited and come early. I was just wondering that sense I come early or really just get to excited during masturbation would that mean I would come early haveing sex with a woman?Because I have a girlfriend who I really like and don't want to lose her just because I don't last long;so I was hoping you would be able to help me let the first time be good, long, and satisfying for her and me, or tell me how I can practice to better myself or become more confident in myself. It will be my first time haveing sex not hers.
Your first time will "normally" last 30-90 seconds.
If she is a virgin, she will experience bloody, "break-in" pain. You may be unable to break her hymen in the first time. If you has this problem, Use my 3-point excitation position: you sit down with a curved body, let her squat over your thighs and position your penis to her vagina orifice, and then you use your hands push her down with her weight.
Masturbation is different from intercourse because it don't have an bioelectric interaction with your partner.
Don't Worry about the first time!
When both of you get excited in the first time, your bioelectricity in your sexual nerves will go too high, and her vagina will produce a powerful magnet field to induce an action potential (voltage) that triggers you ejaculation, even before you enter her!
When you have a regular sex, both of you will calm down and the induced electricity on your sexual nerves by her vagina's magnet field will be gentle. And, you will be in good shape.
Both of you can learn how to work it out.
If you don't ejaculate too frequently, you can retain an "optimal" bioelectric level in your nervous for holding an erection.
For you, please read:
http://www.linplaza.com/extra/male.htm
For her, please read:
http://www.linplaza.com/extra/female.htm
Also read:
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