Thank you for your question. There are two purposes of holding
ejaculation:
Dear Dr. Lin
According to my approach and experience, if you want to hold ejaculation for more than 40 minutes, you must constantly massage your penis root/base and perineum whenever the penis is out of the vagina, to prevent the local muscle from fatigue. Massaging the penis root/base and perineum can not only prolong intercourse, but also keep the fresh blood, oxygen and Chi flowing into the penis. You also want the nerves around your perineum and tail bone to be awake all the time, so that I can make your penis become very hard as well.
1. Try to give your lady more orgasms with the 2nd or 3rd rounds - More
or less, there is a psychological factor involved. Men need women's
appraise on their sexual power. Psychologically, it is very good to
practice holding ejaculation; On the other hand, when a man ejaculates
at the women's 2nd- or 3rd-round orgasms, he will feel a sequence of
surges pump (shot) his semem out by contraction of the prostate muscle
in the base of penis(at a rate of 0.8 seconds per cycle, too!). This muscle requires exercise. The power
ejaculation give this muscle a good exercise.
2. Try to save semen as the Taoism instructs - Taoism have not taught
men not to ejaculate, but instructed men how to regulate the ejaculation
frequency. Basically, we have to realize that the male ejaculation is
not required for the female orgasms. the man holding ejaculation for
saving semen after female orgasms, has to deeply massage the geniatl
area to disperse the accumulated blood and Chi (Qi), and to do exercises
to consume the exceeding testosterone in the blood
stream. Once the testosterone level returns to normal or a little above
normal leves, the pressure on the prostate will be released. If your
can release the pressure on the prostate by deeply massage or exercises,
holding ejaculation is beneficial for men. Otherwise, you have to let
it go. Nothing damaged occurs.
The purpose of hold ejaculation is to increase the secretion of
testosterone into the blood stream through intercourse. This is very
important for the man after 35, whose Kidney Chi starts to slow down. In
the morning, right after waking up, the penis erect. Morning intercourse
with holding ejaculation can increase men's sexual power. Do it very
day, like routine massage on the penis and vagina. Keep the blood and
Chi circulating smoothly there. It is the way to retain the sexual
youth.
The purpose of holding ejaculation is to give penis and vagina more
exercise and to have them massage each other as a routine sexual life.
Men after 35 have to regulate their ejaculation frequency for their sex
future after 40. Frequent ejaculation will make men sexually exhausted,
and eventually become impotence after middle age. I have practiced this
sexercise after 35. After 10-year experiments, I have felt very good to
tell you this is a way to preserve the men's sexual power. By the way,
massaging the genital area is also a very impotant factor to give me
sexual power after I passed 45 (approaching 50).
From reader:
Thank you very much for your informative letter.I wonder if
holding ejaculation for too long will be harmful to our health. If there is
any chance that the semen will flow back in to the bladder. About the
practice of Tao how often can we perform masturbation in one day without
ejaculation.There are conflicting advices on different books.Does hoding
ejaculation will make us exhaust and weak and when is the time that we
should let out or ejaculate the sperm.Could you recommend any health food or
special medicine to stenghten our sexual power.Thank you very much and I
will write about your advices in our daily newspaper.
Sincerely yours, Pxxxx Txxxxx, Ph.D.
Dr. Lin:
If you don't have a hard erection, you cann't control ejacuation. This is because you will try to use the muscle around the prostate to hold the erection. Once your squeeze the prostate you will run into trouble. In fact, what men should do is contract the muscle bectween the anus and tail bone, 2 or 3 inches away from the prostate.
After intercourse, you must massage your entire genital area for 3-5 munites, in addition to the penis root/base.
Semen won't flow back to the bladder after ejaculating, because the hydraulic pressure in the bladder is much higher than that of the seminal vesicle or urethra tract(atmosphere pressure). In fact, the seminal vesicle after squeezing semen out, create a litte suction force internally. The suction force may allow the secretion mixture in vagina to feedback to the seminal vesicle. According to the Taoist's advice, the man should pull his penis out of the vagina alive. This means, the penis must be able to hold 70% of the full erection after ejaculation, before being pulled out. Usually, I can let the penis stay inside the vagina for 3-5 minutes before the penis and seminal vesicle recede. During the stay of my penis inside her vagina, whether ejaculation or non-ejaculation, I usually contract the muscle between the anus and tail bone to draw her released energy into my spinal cord.
How often can we perform masturbation in one day without ejaculation?
It depends on age, individual, and the mind setting.
Men after 40 or with a weak sexual potential, can do it more than 3 times without ejaculation. While You can use the word "Masturbation", I call it "Massage."
If you can hold ejaculation for a long time with constant "Massage", the secrection mechanism of your sexual hormone will be more activative once you ejaculate.
After ejaculating, the penis won't recede and will stay erection for another 3-5 minutes. You will be more energitic after ejaculating.
Any health foods? Tranditionally, sea foods, green vegetables, tomato and soy poducts are the good sources for hormone production. Animal bone marrows are tonic food for sex.
Herbal supplements? We have tested more than 20 hybrid herbal supplements for THIS purpose. We will select few brands for sale with dicount prices in this website in 1 or 2 weeks. I also contact a manufacturer to produce the Dragon-Tiger Formular, as described in my book, for men passing middle age. This Formular is to produce instant sexual power in 30 minutes. For young men with weak Kidney and Liver Chi, we can get the herbal supplements from the existing brands.
This article has been provided by Wave Mechanics Division of Applied Science & Engineering
Research, Inc. 1/27/1998
Copyright (C) 1998 Newman K. Lin, Ph.D., PE., All rights reserved.