Masturbation is an important technique for better sex. It is a massage of the sex organs for men and women. If you want to archieve orgasm in this way, you may have to massage your Clitoris and G-spot at the same time. My finger plier method can help you in this way, but it requires a partner to help you. Or, you can buy a two-finger massager to achieve this goal. This kind of massager emulates my Finger Plier method, as described in http://www.linplaza.com/love/fgplier.htm

The stimulation rate should be 2.5 cycles per second. But, I find a lot of vibrator use a very high frequency stimulation rate. The best one should be speed-variable.

The other good massager is called the G-spot massager which emulates a curved penis. The curved penis emulator, very similar to the real one shown in my website, is a very useful one that can reach the G-spot very easily. The G-spot stimulation requires a lot of pressure to get you there. Which point, the clitoris or G-spot, should you stimulate more? It depends on individual and the sensitivity of the organs. When you masturbate, you should contract your vagina, periodically. This will help you come quickly!

It depends on your personal reaction to the stimulation of the Clitoris. I know some ladies can make it that way. If you want to try it withour a "toy", you try massage the clitoris base with your finger(s). Make sure that the clitoris is lubricated. If not, use massage oil. Make a circular motion around the clitoris with a little pressure and touch it occassionally. The other way to do it is using two fingers to squeeze the clitoris and moving them up and down on both side of the clitoris. Increase the pressure and speed when necessary. You can change the massage motion whenever you want. Massaging the G-spot youself is possible too if you can bend yourself over to let you insert one or two fingers into the vagina. Curl the fingers agaist your G-spot and Move them up and down (in and out) to massage the G-spot and Clitoris at the same time. You should contract your vagina when you are doing it. I hope this helps.